Surely you ask this in jest. ย Are you searching for a reason to leave the continent? ย If not, then allow me to paint a clear picture.
This is dangerous territory.ย My first thought isย that it would be the equivalent of skipping into Dante’s eighth circle of hell. ย My second thoughtโฆare you considering it because you really like this other guy or because you want revenge?
Thirdโฆthe world as you know it would end as you endured the smear campaign from Hell.ย I wrote about a Narcissistโs typical smear campaign, which would seem like a walk in the park compared to the one youโd be lambasted with if you dated his friend.ย Iโd be surprised if you werenโt hunted down by Homeland Security and deported to a remote country thatโs not even on the map.
The Narcissist would let on that he didnโt have a care in the world that youโre dating his โfriendโ, but behind the scenes, your whole identity, friendships, career, and familial ties would be in danger.ย Even your pet Iguana.ย If you care about those you love, donโt bring the wrath of Satan upon them.ย No one would be off limits as the Narcissist systematically destroyed you and those you love.ย Itโs a lot like having a mob hit out on you. ย Ironically, moving to Kiev would start to seem like a good idea.
If you enjoy having a job, your friendships, and neighbors that smile and wave instead of slicing your car tires, I wouldnโt even go there.ย Besides, thereโs always a chance that his โfriendโ could very well be one of the Narcโs flying monkeys.
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ยฉย Kim Saeedย and Let Me Reach, 2016