Discarded by a Narcissist: The Other Woman

Being discarded by a narcissist is one of the most painful experiences victims endure…well, after the heart-wrenching devalue phase.  It’s like icing on an insidious, poisonous cake for which only

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Exposed! 11 Lies Love-Bombing Narcissists Tell

The New Year abounds with lying liars, as “Narcissistic Lies” remains the number one search term that leads readers to this site. This has inspired me to create this post on the most common narcissistic

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How to Pull a 180 on a Narcissist — The Art of Reverse Crazy-Making

Are you tired of your Narcissist’s constant games?  Does he or she stage scenes in order to make you appear confused, hare-brained, or an all-out lunatic?  Do they insist you’re losing your mind

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Cross the Bridge to Your Other Reality

When attempting to leave an abusive partner, most people get sucked back in several times before making the break. Why do you think that is?  Why can’t we just pack our things and leave?  We know it’s

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A Prayer for Those Diagnosing the Narcissist

Dear Lord/ Allah/ Buddha/Universe/Source, Please help all the suffering souls out there who have unknowingly let a Narcissist into their hearts and lives. And, please help the ones who want to escape find

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Are You Offering Yourself Up to Count Narcula?

“The art of narcissistic abuse is about the skill in making the victim offer himself up to abuse” ~ Kathy Krajco One of the most common questions asked by targets of Narcissistic abuse is, “Why have

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No Contact is the First Step in Breaking the Trauma Bond

  You may be reading this article because you’ve been considering leaving your abusive partner.  You daydream about a life without them and for a moment, you feel a small shimmer of hope. But

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