Self-Loathing – The High Price of Giving In to the Narcissist

Narcissists are skillful manipulators.  They swaddle us in an encouraging (yet false) intimacy to get what they want.  When we don’t submit to their demands, we are met with threats, guilt-trips, and

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Freedom Won

~ Lori Scott Kaiser  Once upon a time, there was a little girl, who went to any lengths to have safety in her world. She picked up any crumb of love and held it in her mind, She magnified its value. 

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Why I’m Glad I Went Through Hell with a Narcissist

Years ago, I never would have imagined myself saying those words.  I often PRAYED that I would go to sleep and not wake up.  I was crippled with panic attacks, agoraphobia (from being stalked), anxiety,

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The Strength of the Human Spirit

The Universe is an efficient creation:  matter becomes energy, energy becomes matter, one form of energy is converted into another form; the balance is forever changing, but the Universe is a closed system

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How to Tell When a Narcissist is Lying

When it comes to researching Narcissistic behaviors, “lying” is one that tops the charts.  Women and men all over the world are catching on to the abusive narcissist’s game and they want to

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How We Attract the Narcissist Vibrationally

A common theme regarding Narcissists is how they all behave the same.  They use the same brainwashing techniques, say the same hurtful things, and participate in the same sadistic behaviors.  It’s

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When the Narcissist Promises to Change

Hoovering is basically another tactic used by the Narcissist to re-claim control when you’ve tried to break away from the relationship. Contrary to what it may seem, the Narcissist has not had an epiphany,

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The Gift in the Silent Treatment

The first few times it happened, I was in total misery.  I wasted away in my abode, maintaining a white-knuckle grip on my phone should he decide to call.  I camped out in the apartment lest he chose

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Discarded by a Narcissist: The Other Woman

Being discarded by a narcissist is one of the most painful experiences victims endure…well, after the heart-wrenching devalue phase.  It’s like icing on an insidious, poisonous cake for which only

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