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If you’ve found this site, it’s likely that you are experiencing crippling heartbreak and betrayal.  You want answers to why the person you love is treating you cruelly and acts like nothing you do is ever good enough…the person who once told you how wonderful you are. Today is the day you will finally get answers…

Does any of this sound familiar?

  • You try to talk to them and offer understanding and compromise, but nothing you do ever seems to help your relationship?
  • Every time you do think your relationship is on the mend, you get the rug pulled out from under you…again?
  • You’ve been cheated on – possibly numerous times – yet feel a puzzling urge to stay in the relationship and prove your worth?
  • You’ve been subjected to abandonment, silent treatments, and numerous breakups over the course of your relationship?
  • Every time you think the relationship is over, your Ex makes promises to be better…promises that they break as soon as you’re back together?
  • You’ve become so devastated by being shamed, ridiculed, and deceived that you can barely function day to day?
  • They constantly correct your slight mistakes, making you feel “on guard”, unintelligent, and leaving you with the feeling that you are always doing something wrong?
  • You’ve been verbally abused, cursed, and threatened over something minor. Suddenly, the next day they become sweet, doing all those little things they did when you started dating?
  • They lash out at you, call you names, or say cruel or embarrassing things about you in private or in front of people?
  • They consider your feelings and opinions worthless?

These are all the psychological tricks used by narcissists and emotional abusers.  This is a part of their permanent personality and they will not change.  They will continue to make it all your fault, even though you’ve bent over backward trying to fix the obstacles they keep throwing at your feet.

The good news is that you don’t have to suffer in shame and isolation any longer. No more must you be invalidated by friends and family who may mean well, but simply don’t understand what you’re going through.

Unless a person has been through this nightmare, they cannot relate or give you helpful advice. And that’s why I created resources specifically designed to help you detach from painful relationships and begin to heal.

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The teachings you’ll find here provide a compass to empower, awaken and nourish your whole Being — bringing you into harmony with yourself and your important relationships.

The articles, programs, events, and books offered through Let Me Reach are all designed to create harmony, both within and without — because without harmony there is chaos, struggle and suffering. There is a longing for love and compassion, for self-acceptance, and for peace…none of which can be accomplished inside of abusive relationships.

Through these gentle, yet reflective teachings, your trust in the wisdom of your heart will strengthen. You will finally gain the courage to care enough about yourself that you decide, “Not This”.

Maybe we will have to admit that we are in the wrong job. Or the wrong relationship. With the wrong people around us. Living in the wrong neighborhood. Acting out on the wrong behaviors. Using the wrong substances. Pretending to believe things that we no longer believe. Pretending to be something we were never meant to be. This moment of realization is seldom fun. In fact, it’s usually terrifying. I call this moment of realization: NOT THIS ~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Your clarity will expand in all directions, and your profound awareness of the transformative path you are on will become a map of hidden treasures, helping you uplevel your confidence in yourself as you release old beliefs and old habits that no longer serve you.

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    The Only Guaranteed “One Crazy Trick” for Dealing with a Narcissist

    Not all narcissists are flagrant and boisterous with their abusive and manipulative behavior. Many are quiet, subdued, and put on an innocent face around people who don’t know them very well. In fact, that’s often how the narcissist lures you into their trap. You ignore the red flags, console them (even when they’re to blame […]
  • How the Narcissist Hurts You Using Cognitive Empathy

    How the Narcissist Hurts You Using Cognitive Empathy

    What if I told you that empathy could cause horrible – even unspeakable – physical and emotional pain? “But Kim, isn’t empathy the glue that holds relationships together and creates a positive environment for communication?” Yes, but not all empathy is equal. In fact, the narcissist uses a very specific kind of empathy as a […]
  • 8 Undeniable Signs It’s Time to Move on from Your Relationship

    8 Undeniable Signs It’s Time to Move on from Your Relationship

    Letting go of someone you care about is hard, even when you know it’s the right thing to do.  All relationships have their weaknesses and none of them are without occasional conflict. In any normal relationship, there will be fights from time to time. Things will be said and occasionally rehashed for one-upmanship. For the most part, though, […]
  • Why the Narcissist Seems to Hate You, But Won’t Let You Go

    Why the Narcissist Seems to Hate You, But Won’t Let You Go

    Being the target of narcissistic hatred is the most confusing experience you’ll have in your life.  It’s wrought with ironies, opposites, and sleight of hand.  Just when you think you’ve come out of the nightmare, you wake up in the middle of another one and there doesn’t seem to be any relief in sight. It’s […]
  • How to Leave a Narcissist When You’re Still in Love

    How to Leave a Narcissist When You’re Still in Love

    Wondering how to leave a narcissist?   Maybe you tried, once again, to bring up something your partner did that hurt you, disrespected you, or made you feel worthless. As usual, the fight ended with you apologizing and asking for their forgiveness. Now, you’re daydreaming about packing your car and using your next paycheck to run […]
  • Loss of Identity: Examples of Perspecticide from Narcissistic Abuse

    Loss of Identity: Examples of Perspecticide from Narcissistic Abuse

    Loss of identity is unavoidable after being in an emotionally abusive and manipulative relationship. I often hear people compare living with a narcissistic partner to living in a cult – but with even more isolation. In a cult, you have fellow comrades sharing the same abusive experience. With narcissistic abuse, however, you’re totally alone. Just […]
  • Breaking the Deceptive and Toxic Cycle of Trauma Bonding

    Breaking the Deceptive and Toxic Cycle of Trauma Bonding

    When people think of unconditional love, they tend to imagine positive images of nurturing mothers or life-long friends. In these situations, the relationships have a healthy bond based on qualities like trust, loyalty, and most of all: compassion for each other. But not all unconditional love formed through bonding is healthy – when a narcissist […]
  • Healing from Identity Loss After Narcissistic Abuse

    Healing from Identity Loss After Narcissistic Abuse

    Crafting a self-identity is an ongoing process that most people don’t give much concrete thought to – it just kind of happens. You slowly build interests and dreams. You take jobs, learn things, and experience different activities. This all shapes who you are, what you believe, and how you express yourself. Then a narcissist enters […]