Category Archives for No Contact

Narc Recovery Boot Camp

There isn’t a magical phrase or declaration. You can’t simply listen to a self-help CD one time. One therapy session won’t do the trick. The change won’t happen as you sleep. You have to retrain

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Why Won’t the Narcissist Psychopath Leave Me Alone?

This is a common question among those who are thinking of leaving or have left an emotionally abusive partner (Narcissist, Sociopath, Borderline, etc.)  While some exceptions exist, the main reason that

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Breaking No Contact Can Hurt You in Court

How many times have you found yourself in this situation? “I don’t know why he has to be so hateful.  I only called him so I could tell him…” No judgement here.  I did this all the time before

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What to Do When Your Family and Friends Disappear During Your Recovery

You’ve done it.  You finally moved out, initiated No Contact and so far, you’re holding your position and looking forward to your recovery from narcissistic abuse.  You feel unsure of yourself and

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How to Spot a Narcissist

One of the most popular search terms on Google regarding Narcissism is How to Spot a Narcissist.  The reader is then given pages of numerous links to delve into, all with the hopes of avoiding these

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If You Want Him Back

It may seem counterintuitive, but some women find themselves wishing they could go back to their narcissistic abuser.  This is very common and a normal part of the grieving process.  It is the “bargaining”

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The No-Contact Challenge ~ Quitting Your Narcissist

The first step in recovering from Narcissistic abuse is going No Contact.  Yet, many people get stuck in this stage.  Whether it’s due to a need for closure, crippling self-esteem issues, a need for

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Why We Obsess Over the Narcissist and Become Despondent

*Trigger Alert* – Read with caution The Narcissist strips us of our self-esteem and instills in us feelings of unworthiness.  We are left a wounded child, one who has developed an exaggerated need

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