Archive Yearly Archives: 2014

Warning Signs You're Dating a Loser

This article was published on the Internet several years ago and was originally written to help identify “Losers” in relationships. The e-mail feedback Dr. Carver received on the article was tremendous.

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I Went No Contact – Now What?

No Contact. Words that stir dread and anxiety… No Contact is serious business.  It’s the final step in detaching from an abusive and toxic relationship.  On average, targets of narcissistic abuse

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To the Woman Who’s Made to Feel Like She’s Difficult to Love

Your strength and mine are one in the same. You are not a boulder obstructing the path to love. You are a vessel filling the crater with love,

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LMR Saturday Survivor – Inspirational Stories from the Front Line

    One Year Narc Free… ~Submitted by KarinKateriKei – The Eclectic Poet~ This time last year, I was out with my best friend. My best friend and the one who essentially staged a

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Forgiving the Narcissist – Is Your Ego the Culprit?

  There are several factors at play when choosing to remain in a toxic relationship.  But did you know your ego may be the most prevalent? In fact, your ego is just as convincing as the Narcissist

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The Unbearable Triteness of Being…engaged in conversation with a Narcissist

Frequent, mundane drivel from the disordered that may induce a psychotic break **Trigger Alert – This post contains possible triggers.  Please proceed with caution.  Also, I use the pronoun “he”

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When They Tell You the First Time…

“My dear, why must you be shown 29 times before you can see who they really are? Why can’t you get it the first time?” ~ Maya Angelou Wonderful question, in hindsight. Another example of history

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Ray Rice and the Pregnancy of Emotional and Verbal Abuse

  Readers who visit this site typically come here to learn about Narcissistic abuse.  They want to know the reasons their partner acts the way they do.  Why is he/she so cruel?  So dishonest? Why

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Military Brainwashing Tactics of the Narcissist

If you found yourself a prisoner of war, would you lie dreamily about in your holding cell and consider yourself lucky?  If you found the gate open one day and no guard on duty, would you stay inside? Of

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