Archive Yearly Archives: 2014

Trolls, Narcissists, and Codependency…an Open Debate

**Warning – Trigger Alert** For those of you who read my article, Why Going to Therapy with a Narcissist is a Bad Idea, you may have read the many interesting comments that were left on my blog.  I

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How Could He Just Leave Me??

 This is one of the most common questions that comes through on my stats page, as well as when working with clients.  It’s heartbreaking to hear this question asked with such heartfelt emotion.  Those

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Making Space for Healthy Love after Narcissistic Abuse

How long have you stayed with the Narcissist, waiting for them to change?  To go back to the person they were when you first met them? Five years?  Ten years?  More? Can I be straight up with you? 

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First Christmas Season Without the Narcissist?

It’s the Christmas season and the forums abound with people who want advice on what to do about their Narcissistic partner.  Some struggle to go No Contact, while others consider letting the Narc back

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Will Therapy with a Narcissist Help? Why it’s a Bad Idea

Will therapy with a narcissist help? After all, you’ve apparently committed some serious grievances against them. According to him or her, it’s a wonder you’re not on the FBI’s Most Wanted List.

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Why Go No Contact with the Narcissist?

If you’re reading this article, perhaps you’re searching for reasons why No Contact is the best way to sever ties with the Narcissist in your life.  You may have already read some articles and now

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I Filed a Restraining Order Against the Narcissist…Now What?

Filing a restraining order against the Narcissist is often a necessary and unavoidable step in one’s road to independence.  The reason why is because many narcissists refuse to respect their target’s

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Is It Possible He’s Not 100% Narcissist?

  Part of the reason targets of narcissistic abuse stay in the relationship beyond a reasonable and rational point is because they find it too hard to accept the idea that some people are cunning,

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Will My Narcissistic Ex Ever Feel Guilty?

A common question as it relates to a toxic relationship is whether the narcissist feels any guilt or remorse for what they’ve done to their partner (a.k.a. source of supply). The short answer is no. In

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