Archive Yearly Archives: 2014

Feel Like You Were Brainwashed by the Narcissist?

  You were.  Through manipulative psychological techniques that effectively condition your subconscious mind. Narcissists use subtle clues and suggestions to guide you towards things that are not

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The Time I Agreed to be a Second Wife

I am going to share something with you today. Something I’ve only shared with a few of my clients. Something that takes a lot of guts to disclose, and in fact, that I’ve debated doing for some

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Trust And Toxic Relationships

~ by Maria Hill Sometimes the greatest trust we experience is with animals. Unfortunately trust between humans can be hard to come by. Trust And Toxic Relationships Trust is the basis of any effective

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The Silent Treatment Plays on Your Fear of Abandonment

Fear of abandonment.  It can destroy your life if left unchecked; especially if you are in a relationship with a Narcissist. Narcissists use this fear to keep you in a perpetual cycle of anxiety, causing

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How Can I Be Sure He’s a Narcissist?

You’ve read every online article you can find on Narcissism.  You’ve printed them out and made your own binder-Bible, complete with chapters and subtitles.  You know so much about the disorder, you

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Why is No Contact So Hard?

Everyone who has been involved with a Narcissist experiences this contradiction of logic.  Severing the relationship with a disordered personality should be a no-brainer, right?  Yet it seems no matter

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Looming Over Me: Control Games

~by Verity~ You stand, cup of coffee in hand, towering over me, refusing to sit down, too close, your face set in the familiar jaw-jutting meanness. I try to keep calm – although you are bigger and

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Retribution Through Desecration of Your Spirit is not Your Destiny

  I’ve read countless testimonies of narcissistic abuse victims indicating their belief that their situation is retribution for past sins.  This false belief can occur during any and all stages

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Narcissistic Ex Loves New Partner More

One of the biggest struggles when detaching from an abusive relationship with a Narcissist is the perception that he or she loves their new partner more.  In fact, it enhances feelings of low self-esteem

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