Archive Yearly Archives: 2014
A Matter of Love…or Cake?
I hear it all the time… “My Narcissist broke up with me two months (or two years) ago, but even though he/she has a new partner, they want to stay friends and see me on the down low”. Yes, the Narcissist
Read MoreWhy do I Feel so Attached to my Narcissistic Ex?
This is a common question as it relates to how one perceives their attachment to the Narcissist in their life. In the beginning, it seemed they’d finally met their soul-mate. The Narcissist
Read MoreNumpty Narcissists – 4 Signs the Narcissist is a Nitwit with Nary a Clue
Some narcissists are stupid. They love to use intimidation to get what they want. They threaten, scathe, cajole, and perform underhanded acts that make Bernie Madoff seem like a rookie. Because of
Read MoreLMR Saturday Survivor – Inspirational Stories from the Front Line
Submitted by ~Healing~ I have been true NC for five weeks now. It feels like 6 months. I still get sad but it comes and goes. When I first left him my friends checked on me continuously and supported me
Read MoreA Letter To All Women Who Have Been Told To Quieten Down, Speak Softer and Be Less Angry
You have been taught to accommodate, absorb and the back of your neck aches sometimes from nodding so much…
Read MoreWhy I Stay
Submitted by ~ Anonymous~ I dream of the day when the chains are released When I’ll say with pride, “I’m free from the beast.” The mind games are over, no longer ignored. With my head held high,
Read MoreSigns You Might Be a Trauma-Bonded Co-Dependent (and what to do about it)
One of the most difficult challenges in working with victims of Narcissistic abuse is helping them see that they are not responsible for their abuser’s actions, behaviors, cruelty, or consequences that
Read MoreThe Myth of the Narcissist – Seeing Through the Illusion
by ~Gina Fant-Saez~ You said the most beautiful things and sounded evolved and sincere With intentions unquestionably true And ambitions insightfully clear I used to bathe in your words believed
Read MoreDon’t Sell Yourself Short
I bargained with Life for a penny, And Life would pay no more, However I begged at evening When I counted my scanty store; For Life is a just employer, He gives you what you ask, But once you have
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