I hear it all the time…
“My Narcissist broke up with me two months (or two years) ago, but even though he/she has a new partner, they want to stay friends and see me on the down low”.
Yes, the Narcissist continues to see their break-up partner…in intimate ways. Very, very intimate ways. All under the guise of, “I know I have a new girlfriend/boyfriend/fiance/spouse, but I still love you”, or “Hey, let’s be friends”, or the all-time classic “Everybody cheats”.
This is really nothing more than a lame trick where the Narcissist paves the way for…
A renewed relationship? No.
Second chances? No.
Rekindling the love? No.
The true answer? “Friends” with benefits…with you, her, him, and them, ergo a lot of cake-eating.
Seriously, do any of your other friends tell you how worthless you are? That no one would touch you with a ten-foot pole? Continuously cheat on you?
Would your friends take advantage of you financially or try their best to make you feel like dirt under their shoe…then take a big bite of cake, pretending that nothing dubious is going on?
No, that’s not what friends do. Therefore, the process of elimination should establish that the Narcissist is not your friend.
They just really like cake. All kinds of cake. The best thing you can do? Stop supplying cake…
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