Category Archives for Narcissistic Behaviors

Breaking No Contact Can Hurt You in Court

How many times have you found yourself in this situation? “I don’t know why he has to be so hateful.  I only called him so I could tell him…” No judgement here.  I did this all the time before

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When the FOG Lifts…Clarity and Awareness after Leaving the Narcissist

When I was a little girl, I would sleepwalk.  I’d wake up on the living-room couch, or sometimes even on the floor.  It left me with a very bizarre feeling because I couldn’t comprehend how I could

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Forgiving the Narcissist vs. Abuse Amnesia

Forgiveness.  It’s all over the media.  If we want to live a stress-free life, clear our energy channels, and obtain forgiveness from our Creator, we must learn to forgive.  In the words of the Buddha,

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What to Do When Your Family and Friends Disappear During Your Recovery

You’ve done it.  You finally moved out, initiated No Contact and so far, you’re holding your position and looking forward to your recovery from narcissistic abuse.  You feel unsure of yourself and

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I Was a Horrible Wife

After meeting and “falling in love”, we married and started our lives together.  At that time, I had no idea that I needed to be aware of the signs of a narcissistic spouse.   In the beginning,

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How the Narcissist Keeps You in a FOG

Have you come across the term “FOG” when reading about narcissism?  FOG is an acronym that stands for Fear, Obligation, and Guilt.  Narcissists use FOG to keep their targets in a haze so

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Why I’m Glad I Went Through Hell with a Narcissist

Years ago, I never would have imagined myself saying those words.  I often PRAYED that I would go to sleep and not wake up.  I was crippled with panic attacks, agoraphobia (from being stalked), anxiety,

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How to Detect Narcissistic Lies

When it comes to researching narcissistic behaviors, “narcissistic lies” is one that tops the charts.  Women and men all over the world are catching on to the abusive narcissist’s game and they

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Discarded by a Narcissist: The Other Woman

Being discarded by a narcissist is one of the most painful experiences victims endure…well, after the heart-wrenching devalue phase.  It’s like icing on an insidious, poisonous cake for which only

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