All posts by Kim Saeed
Signs You Might Be a Trauma-Bonded Co-Dependent (and what to do about it)
One of the most difficult challenges in working with victims of Narcissistic abuse is helping them see that they are not responsible for their abuser’s actions, behaviors, cruelty, or consequences that
Read MoreThe Myth of the Narcissist – Seeing Through the Illusion
by ~Gina Fant-Saez~ You said the most beautiful things and sounded evolved and sincere With intentions unquestionably true And ambitions insightfully clear I used to bathe in your words believed
Read MoreDon’t Sell Yourself Short
I bargained with Life for a penny, And Life would pay no more, However I begged at evening When I counted my scanty store; For Life is a just employer, He gives you what you ask, But once you have
Read MoreWarning Signs You're Dating a Loser
This article was published on the Internet several years ago and was originally written to help identify “Losers” in relationships. The e-mail feedback Dr. Carver received on the article was tremendous.
Read MoreI Went No Contact – Now What?
No Contact. Words that stir dread and anxiety… No Contact is serious business. It’s the final step in detaching from an abusive and toxic relationship. On average, targets of narcissistic abuse
Read MoreTo the Woman Who’s Made to Feel Like She’s Difficult to Love
Your strength and mine are one in the same. You are not a boulder obstructing the path to love. You are a vessel filling the crater with love,
Read MoreLMR Saturday Survivor – Inspirational Stories from the Front Line
One Year Narc Free… ~Submitted by KarinKateriKei – The Eclectic Poet~ This time last year, I was out with my best friend. My best friend and the one who essentially staged a
Read MoreForgiving the Narcissist – Is Your Ego the Culprit?
There are several factors at play when choosing to remain in a toxic relationship. But did you know your ego may be the most prevalent? In fact, your ego is just as convincing as the Narcissist in your
Read MoreThe Unbearable Triteness of Being…engaged in conversation with a Narcissist
Frequent, mundane drivel from the disordered that may induce a psychotic break **Trigger Alert – This post contains possible triggers. Please proceed with caution. Also, I use the pronoun “he”
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