All posts by Kim Saeed
When They Tell You the First Time…
“My dear, why must you be shown 29 times before you can see who they really are? Why can’t you get it the first time?” ~ Maya Angelou Wonderful question, in hindsight. Another example of history
Read MoreRay Rice and the Pregnancy of Emotional and Verbal Abuse
Readers who visit this site typically come here to learn about Narcissistic abuse. They want to know the reasons their partner acts the way they do. Why is he/she so cruel? So dishonest? Why
Read MoreMilitary Brainwashing Tactics of the Narcissist
If you found yourself a prisoner of war, would you lie dreamily about in your holding cell and consider yourself lucky? If you found the gate open one day and no guard on duty, would you stay inside? Of
Read MoreLMR Saturday Survivor – Inspirational Stories from the Front Line
~Submitted by Scott Dougall~ In a way it takes a while for you to believe that you suffer from something like this. PTSD feels to be something that you suffer from when something real and horrific happens
Read MoreNarcissists and Sex: The Hidden Agenda
Sex and intimacy are important in any mutually loving relationship. And while they are each separate elements to a successful connection with a partner, today’s focus will be on the subject of sex.
Read More4 Bad-Faith Tactics Used by Narcissists
Ted is married to Marcy, but he’s wanted to break it off for a while. He doesn’t believe they are compatible, so after several years of treating her unkindly, he moves out. Though he doesn’t want
Read More6 Steps to Emotional Healing after Narcissistic Abuse (#1 is the most important!)
How long does it take to achieve emotional healing after narcissistic abuse? Perhaps you’ve been sitting around, asking yourself the following questions… “Why does it take so long to heal
Read MoreTaming Insecurity – Dating After Toxic Relationships
Getting back into dating after toxic relationships with emotional abusers is challenging. If you haven’t done any self-work, there’s horrible doubt and insecurity. Still under the impression that
Read MoreThe Freedom Agenda – What Every Empath and Co-Dependent Needs to Know
You are not responsible for the pain, dysfunction, and poor decisions of others… What was that you said? You feel burdened by all that is wrong in the world? You feel an overwhelming pressure to
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