All posts by Kim Saeed

Things Narcissists Don’t Want You to Know

Are you tired of feeling like you’ve been outsmarted by the narcissist?  Do you experience unhealthy levels of self-loathing each time they pull the wool over your eyes? There are things narcissists

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Why and How I Left Teaching to Become a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery & New Life Coach

If you asked me five years ago which career I wanted to be in for the rest of my life, I would have replied, “An elementary school teacher”. In fact, that’s exactly what I was doing five years ago.  After

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The Danger of Negative Expectations in Your Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse

Wondering how to get over a narcissist? If you’re here, I imagine you are.   Truth be told, it’s a mission that seems almost impossible. You know that. I know that. Everybody knows that. But

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Regrets are a Waste of Time

There are times when life seems to deliver us unfavorable messages.  By replaying the same sorrowful telegram, we keep our minds in a fixed position of loss.  We concentrate with laser beam focus on

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The Only Two Things You Need in Order to Stop Attracting Narcissists

I recently wrote an article titled You’re Not Attracting Narcissists – Maybe Narcissists Are Attracting You.  A lot of readers said the article really resonated with them and clarified things in a

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How Obsessively Researching Signs of Narcissism is Ruining Your Life

Have you found yourself obsessively researching signs of narcissism? Did you recently leave a toxic relationship, only to continue your fact-finding mission like a journalist working for CNN? Have you

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Akeru – The Sanctity of Give and Take

~ by Lolisha GLT Chaney In this world there are builders and there are destroyers. Those that beautify, those that destroy, and those that rebuild what has been destroyed. There are people who wound

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7 Tips to Rescue Yourself When No One’s Around

If you’ve recently ended a toxic relationship and want to heal from emotional trauma, learning to self-soothe is one of the primary steps to rebuilding your life and self-esteem. You may already understand

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5 Brutal Ways New Abuse Survivors Torture Themselves

Wondering how to truly heal from emotional abuse? Legions of people who’ve endured emotional and narcissistic abuse hold the mistaken belief that choosing to leave a toxic relationship is the hardest

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