All posts by Kim Saeed

The Narcissists’ Playbook

by Ven Baxter One of the first steps out of Narcissistic abuse is the realization that one is, in fact, dealing with a Narcissist.  I’m going to generalize a lot here (quite legitimately, I believe),

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3 Key Steps to Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

Let’s start with a simple question… How long, exactly, does it take to heal from narcissistic abuse? Because that’s the objective here, isn’t it? Depending on what site or Facebook page you land

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The Matrix of Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

“This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill—the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill and I

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There are far more for you than against you

~by Lolisha GLT Chaney There are far more for you, than against you. You are far from being alone. There are strangers strategically placed in your path that want to see you heal your life. There are

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Things Narcissists Don’t Want You to Know

Are you tired of feeling like you’ve been outsmarted by the narcissist?  Do you experience unhealthy levels of self-loathing each time they pull the wool over your eyes? There are things narcissists

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Why and How I Left Teaching to Become a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery & New Life Coach

If you asked me five years ago which career I wanted to be in for the rest of my life, I would have replied, “An elementary school teacher”. In fact, that’s exactly what I was doing five years ago.  After

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The Danger of Negative Expectations in Your Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse

Wondering how to get over a narcissist? If you’re here, I imagine you are.   Truth be told, it’s a mission that seems almost impossible. You know that. I know that. Everybody knows that. But

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Regrets are a Waste of Time

There are times when life seems to deliver us unfavorable messages.  By replaying the same sorrowful telegram, we keep our minds in a fixed position of loss.  We concentrate with laser beam focus on

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The Only Two Things You Need in Order to Stop Attracting Narcissists

I recently wrote an article titled You’re Not Attracting Narcissists – Maybe Narcissists Are Attracting You.  A lot of readers said the article really resonated with them and clarified things in a

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