Category Archives for Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Easing the Sting of “Rejection”

I get emails every day from people who are stuck in an obsessive cycle of feeling worthless, unattractive, and “no good”.  This happens because the Narcissist in their life conditioned them to believe

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10 Lies We Mistake for Love – Part II

This post is the second in a two-part series.  To see the first one, click here. Lies We Mistake for Love – continued… 6.  You believe you have to earn love Love should not depend on what you can

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Breaking No Contact Can Hurt You in Court

How many times have you found yourself in this situation? “I don’t know why he has to be so hateful.  I only called him so I could tell him…” No judgement here.  I did this all the time before

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When the FOG Lifts…Clarity and Awareness after Leaving the Narcissist

When I was a little girl, I would sleepwalk.  I’d wake up on the living-room couch, or sometimes even on the floor.  It left me with a very bizarre feeling because I couldn’t comprehend how I could

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Forgiving the Narcissist vs. Abuse Amnesia

Forgiveness.  It’s all over the media.  If we want to live a stress-free life, clear our energy channels, and obtain forgiveness from our Creator, we must learn to forgive.  In the words of the Buddha,

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What to Do When Your Family and Friends Disappear During Your Recovery

You’ve done it.  You finally moved out, initiated No Contact and so far, you’re holding your position and looking forward to your recovery from narcissistic abuse.  You feel unsure of yourself and

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This is Your Life…

Lyrics: “This Is Your Life” Yesterday is a wrinkle on your forehead Yesterday is a promise that you’ve broken Don’t close your eyes, don’t close your eyes This is your life

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How the Narcissist Keeps You in a FOG

Have you come across the term “FOG” when reading about narcissism?  FOG is an acronym that stands for Fear, Obligation, and Guilt.  Narcissists use FOG to keep their targets in a haze so

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Rise Above Self-Sabotage and Live True to Yourself

So you finally broke free from the Narcissist.  You got your own place, initiated blunt-force No Contact, and depleted twenty-seven boxes of Kleenex in under a week. I hate to break it to you, but that

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