All posts by Kim Saeed
This Just In: Men Watch Porn (An Antithetical)
One of my favorite sites, The Good Men Project, once featured an article titled, “This Just In: Men Watch Porn” My first reaction was, “Well, no duh. This has been a societal issue
Read MoreShady Shizzle from the Mouths of Narcissists
The narcissist lies to control you. People who find themselves in confusing relationships with Narcissists and other users are often baffled by what their enigmatic partners really mean…wishing they
Read MoreHow to NOT be a Sitting Duck for Narcissists and Other Manipulators
Dating is a phase of discovery – whether or not you are recovering from a toxic relationship. If you’re not careful, you may begin to feel like a sitting duck for narcissists. For those who
Read MoreExit Wounds
By Stephanie March If you’re reading this article – or any others on this site – it’s probably safe to assume that you have found yourself involved with a narcissist or other toxic personality
Read More3 Best-Kept Narcissistic Secrets that Will Make Everything Clear
You realize you’re in a war, right? Ok, so maybe no actual firearms or tanks are involved, but you are definitely in a bloody battle for your sanity. I hate to dredge up the painful reality of it all,
Read MoreThe Reason You Break No Contact
Are you trying to figure out the reason you break no contact? The toughest part of detaching from an abusive relationship with a narcissist or other toxic individual is implementing and maintaining No
Read MoreNot All That is Buried is Dead
Time is not a healer. It’s a system for keeping track of seconds, minutes, hours, and days. Time may take the edge off of intense pain, but it doesn’t heal. It’s what we do with the passage of
Read MoreA Letter from My Future Self as a Survivor of Narcissistic Abuse
~ by Amy L. To My Present Self – I know right now you feel scared and lost. The amount of pain you are in feels unbearable and you are scared to experience your feelings. Right now you are afraid
Read MoreCognitive Dissonance Removal Strategies
Abusive relationships often reshape your entire belief system. If you are like most victims of narcissistic abuse, you experienced a distorted sense of reality throughout the majority of the relationship
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