All posts by Kim Saeed

How to Deal with a Narcissist While Stuck Together During Coronavirus Quarantine

You scroll through your newsfeed. You see your friends sharing photos of fresh homemade bread, woodworking projects, and happy families spending quarantine together. As you scroll, you can’t help but

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10 Narcissistic Manipulation Tactics to Watch for During COVID-19

The coronavirus pandemic has been both a gift and a curse for narcissists – and survivors of narcissistic abuse. If you’ve managed to escape narcissistic manipulation and have begun a new life on your

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3 Reasons to Learn a Love Language in Greek

by Gerard Murphy Could a new love language be the missing ingredient in modern connections? In this age of speed dating, blind dating and online matchmaking, is it conceivable to hope for, let alone experience,

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Does the Narcissist Prefer You Over the New Supply?

Is there a way to tell if the narcissist is just settling with their new supply and would rather be with you? If you are trying to break free from a narcissist or if you were recently discarded by one,

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The Dark Triad: Are We Gaslighting Ourselves About Narcissism?

When we first started learning about narcissism, most of the material we encountered was clear about how dangerous narcissists are and how detrimental it is to be in relationships with them. But now, much

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How Betrayal Bonds Keep You Chained to Narcissistic Abuse

When we think of trauma, we don’t usually think of betrayal as being a source of it.  Your partner calls you an insulting name, uses you for money, disrespects your boundaries, or sleeps with your

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6 Types of Spiritual Bypassing Holding Back Your Abuse Recovery

In all my years of guiding others through narcissistic abuse recovery, I’ve seen some dangerous advice.  Everywhere I look, it seems there is a teacher or author who promises rapid healing, wholeness,

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10 Things to Expect When a Narcissist Knows You’re Onto Them

Are you preparing to let the narcissist know you’re onto them? What could be more vindicating then letting the narcissist know you’ve figured them out? That you’re onto their game and you’re

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REAL Self-Care Ideas for New Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse

Self-care can mean different things to different people.  For someone like me, considering where I’m at in my own recovery from narcissistic abuse, I tend to be more self-reflective, spending time

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