All posts by Kim Saeed
Breaking the Deceptive and Toxic Cycle of Trauma Bonding
When people think of unconditional love, they tend to imagine positive images of nurturing mothers or life-long friends. In these situations, the relationships have a healthy bond based on qualities like
Read MoreHealing from Identity Loss After Narcissistic Abuse
Crafting a self-identity is an ongoing process that most people don’t give much concrete thought to – it just kind of happens. You slowly build interests and dreams. You take jobs, learn things, and
Read MoreThe Only Guaranteed “One Crazy Trick” for Dealing with a Narcissist
Not all narcissists are flagrant and boisterous with their abusive and manipulative behavior. Many are quiet, subdued, and put on an innocent face around people who don’t know them very well. In
Read MoreHow the Narcissist Hurts You Using Cognitive Empathy
What if I told you that empathy could cause horrible – even unspeakable – physical and emotional pain? “But Kim, isn’t empathy the glue that holds relationships together and creates a positive
Read More8 Undeniable Signs It’s Time to Move on from Your Relationship
Letting go of someone you care about is hard, even when you know it’s the right thing to do. All relationships have their weaknesses and none of them are without occasional conflict. In any normal
Read MoreWhy the Narcissist Seems to Hate You, But Won’t Let You Go
Being the target of narcissistic hatred is the most confusing experience you’ll have in your life. It’s wrought with ironies, opposites, and sleight of hand. Just when you think you’ve come out
Read MoreOn a Dating Site? One of the Top Ways to Avoid Users Online
One question I see floating around on the internet is, “I am on ABC dating site and this guy or gal I just connected with is asking for a full-length body shot. What should I do? I don’t want to
Read MoreCan You Make a Narcissist Finally Commit?
Can a narcissist commit? That’s the dream, right? That despite everything you’ve read – and the narcissist in your life meeting all the criteria of having no empathy and a personality disorder
Read More5 Cruel Ways You’ll Feel Destroyed by the Polyamorous Narcissist
Wondering how to deal with a polyamorous narcissist? You are not alone. Many online blogs and support groups for victims of narcissists have sprouted up over the years, as people have realized the damage
Read MoreHow to Deal with Adult Narcissistic Children
Narcissism is one of the most insidious personality disorders in existence. It’s often difficult to recognize, especially in your own children. You might feel as if there’s something just a little
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