All posts by Kim Saeed
Programming People – And The Power Of Flipping The Script
The work that we do involves dealing with human psychology, which is a big, expansive field. But there are some good guidelines that really help people to take the reins when they’re dealing with
Read MoreMonkey Branching: Why Narcissists Are Always in New Relationships
When you’re involved with a narcissist, you cycle through intense emotions regularly. Fear, insecurity, dread, sadness, shame, anticipation- these are just some of the familiar feelings you might encounter
Read MoreThe Top 9 Things Narcissists Say and What They Actually Mean
How can you tell if a narcissist is being honest? Narcissists will say anything to get you to do what they want and they have an arsenal of words to use to do this. Their victims need to know how these
Read MoreWhy You Shouldn’t Take Narcissistic Rage Personally
Do you know that familiar whirlwind of the narcissist’s anger and impulsive behavior? Do you feel like you’re constantly pausing or second-guessing yourself because you’re afraid of their response?
Read MoreIs Narcissism A Mental Illness or Something More?
Is narcissism a mental illness? According to the DSM-V, the answer is yes. Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental illness associated with a persistent pattern of entitlement, lack of empathy, and
Read MoreThree Reasons You Are Attracted To Narcissists
Whether we’d like to admit it or not, with few exceptions, we choose our partners. Attraction is a dynamic phenomenon that is complex and multifaceted. When we find ourselves being attracted to a narcissistic
Read MoreDoes Your ACE Score Put You At Risk For Narcissistic Abuse?
Did you have a rough childhood? Have you ever wondered exactly how your early years may have shaped your current thoughts or behaviors? You probably know that problems in childhood can undoubtedly affect
Read MoreThe Narcissist I Am With Is Unaware of What They’re Doing
Dear Kim, I am currently experiencing all of this (related to your article titled The Cycle of Narcissism: Why Do They Teeter Between Love and Hate)? Reading the section on whole object relations really
Read More12 Signs You’re an Old Soul
There’s a part of you that has always felt different from other people. You’ve always felt older than your actual age. As a child, you probably got along well with adults, but kids your age seemed
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