All posts by Kim Saeed
Does the Narcissist Prefer You Over the New Supply?
Is there a way to tell if the narcissist is just settling with their new supply and would rather be with you? If you are trying to break free from a narcissist or if you were recently discarded by one,
Read MoreThe Dark Triad: Are We Gaslighting Ourselves About Narcissism?
When we first started learning about narcissism, most of the material we encountered was clear about how dangerous narcissists are and how detrimental it is to be in relationships with them. But now, much
Read MoreHow Betrayal Bonds Keep You Chained to Narcissistic Abuse
When we think of trauma, we don’t usually think of betrayal as being a source of it. Your partner calls you an insulting name, uses you for money, disrespects your boundaries, or sleeps with your
Read More6 Types of Spiritual Bypassing Holding Back Your Abuse Recovery
In all my years of guiding others through narcissistic abuse recovery, I’ve seen some dangerous advice. Everywhere I look, it seems there is a teacher or author who promises rapid healing, wholeness,
Read More10 Things to Expect When a Narcissist Knows You’re Onto Them
Are you preparing to let the narcissist know you’re onto them? What could be more vindicating then letting the narcissist know you’ve figured them out? That you’re onto their game and you’re
Read MoreREAL Self-Care Ideas for New Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse
Self-care can mean different things to different people. For someone like me, considering where I’m at in my own recovery from narcissistic abuse, I tend to be more self-reflective, spending time
Read MoreYou’re Not Attracting Narcissists – Maybe Narcissists Are Attracting You
When researching narcissistic abuse, you’ve no doubt run into some of the new age self-help articles that blame your wounded inner core and the forces of the universe for your trauma. These articles
Read More8 Red Flags That You’re Dealing with a Narcissistic Mother
Do you feel empty when you hear your friends talk about loving relationships with their mothers? Their mothers sound supportive, compassionate, and uplifting. But you? Well, you couldn’t use any of those
Read MoreNarcissistic Love Bombing Always Leads to Hate Bombing
“Why can’t we just go back to the way things USED to be? The good times before we fought all the time?” If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, you’ve no doubt uttered this classic question
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