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I Went No Contact – Now What?

No Contact. Words that stir dread and anxiety… No Contact is serious business.  It’s the final step in detaching from an abusive and toxic relationship.  On average, targets of narcissistic abuse

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Vanilla Sky – Unreality with the Narcissist

You’ve come to realize the Illusion of the Narcissist. …and that your relationship with the Narcissist was a reality warp. No matter how many times you replay history in your mind, you can’t

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Dear Kim…Why Can’t I Leave Him?

Dear Kim, I have been with my Narcissistic partner for four years.  He’s been cruel, demeaning, and lies to me left and right.  I know he’s not good for me, but I keep hanging on to the nice part

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Are People Glad They Divorced a Narcissist?

I must confess I’m glad that people are considering severing the ties with their emotional abuser.  You do not deserve to be treated with disrespect, scorn, nor in condescending ways, whether or not

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How to Attract a Narcissist Back Into Your Life

Wondering how to win a narcissist back after devaluation?  If you’re asking this question, perhaps the narcissist in your life is giving you the silent treatment or has discarded you for another source

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8 Ways to Break Soul Ties with the Narcissist

Does it seem that the narcissist is larger than life?  Do you struggle with obsessive thoughts about them and wish you could get them out of your head?  Do you feel that you love him or her more than

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Focus on Your Own Recovery…

In a past post, I described the heartbreakingly naïve suggestions listed in some of the mainstream books available on the topic of Narcissism.  One such book, Disarming the Narcissist: Surviving and

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Dear Kim – How Can I Get Over The Excruciating Pain from Being Discarded?

Whether you were discarded by your toxic partner, or left them due to manipulation and emotional/financial abuse, recovering from the relationship can seem next to impossible. By the time the relationship

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FAQ Friday – What is a Narcissist Thinking When They Discard You?

By the time a narcissist begins to discard you, the gig is pretty much up.  Your only role at this point is a spot in the queue of supply – they’ve already found new supply, and you are considered

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