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The True Tragedy of the Devaluation Stage

If you’ve experienced the agony of narcissistic abuse,  you’d probably agree that the devaluation stage carried out by the narcissist is one of the elements that caused the most damage.  After

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Books for a Healed and Empowered Life

 Anyone who is trying to leave a narcissist needs to impose very specific tactics in order to break away, heal, and move on towards a better life.   How to Do No Contact like a Boss! takes the reader

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Cognitive Dissonance Removal Strategies: Harmful vs. Healthy Ways

Abusive relationships often reshape your entire belief system. If you are like most victims of narcissistic abuse, you experienced a distorted sense of reality throughout the majority of the relationship

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The Anatomy of Narcissism

Narcissists are disconnected from life; they have no knowledge, experience, or memory of love or caring. They cannot appreciate beauty. They are not able to replenish themselves; they have no internal

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Warning Signs You’re Dating a Loser

Written by Joseph M. Carver, Ph.D., Psychologist Introduction Very few relationships start on terms other than sweetness and politeness. In the beginning, “the honeymoon” of the relationship,

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Easing the Sting of “Rejection”

I get emails every day from people who are stuck in an obsessive cycle of feeling worthless, unattractive, and “no good”.  This happens because the Narcissist in their life conditioned them to believe

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Breaking No Contact Can Hurt You in Court

How many times have you found yourself in this situation? “I don’t know why he has to be so hateful.  I only called him so I could tell him…” No judgement here.  I did this all the time before

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If You Want Him Back

It may seem counterintuitive, but some women find themselves wishing they could go back to their narcissistic abuser.  This is very common and a normal part of the grieving process.  It is the “bargaining”

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The Funeral – Burying My Grief

July 7, 2013 – 8:25 a.m. – Our past can affect us in different ways, depending on our personality and the unique events that have caused pain.  We find ways to cope, but for many, the pain

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