Category Archives for Discovering You’re Dealing With a Narcissist
10 Lies We Mistake for Love – Part II
This post is the second in a two-part series. To see the first one, click here. Lies We Mistake for Love – continued… 6. You believe you have to earn love Love should not depend on what you can
Read More10 Lies We Mistake for Love – Part One
This article is the first in a two-part series. What is real love? Poets and writers have attempted to define true love for centuries. While true love is certainly something worth striving for, it’s
Read MoreBreaking No Contact Can Hurt You in Court
How many times have you found yourself in this situation? “I don’t know why he has to be so hateful. I only called him so I could tell him…” No judgement here. I did this all the time before
Read MoreDear Kim – I Can’t Determine if My Partner is a Narcissist!
Dear Kim, I’ve been in a relationship for a year and a half with a guy I’m now engaged to. Everything is good for the most part, but he can get pretty mean when we argue. He sometimes tells me
Read MoreWhen the FOG Lifts…Clarity and Awareness after Leaving the Narcissist
When I was a little girl, I would sleepwalk. I’d wake up on the living-room couch, or sometimes even on the floor. It left me with a very bizarre feeling because I couldn’t comprehend how I could
Read MoreForgiving the Narcissist vs. Abuse Amnesia
Forgiveness. It’s all over the media. If we want to live a stress-free life, clear our energy channels, and obtain forgiveness from our Creator, we must learn to forgive. In the words of the Buddha,
Read MoreHow You Became the Other Woman
I’ve worked with countless numbers of women who started out engaged to or married to a Narcissist and then, through a twisted turn of events, became the “Other Woman”. While the Narcissist’s
Read MoreWhat to Do When Your Family and Friends Disappear During Your Recovery
You’ve done it. You finally moved out, initiated No Contact and so far, you’re holding your position and looking forward to your recovery from narcissistic abuse. You feel unsure of yourself and
Read MoreI Was a Horrible Wife
After meeting and “falling in love”, we married and started our lives together. At that time, I had no idea that I needed to be aware of the signs of a narcissistic spouse. In the beginning,
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