Category Archives for Discovering You’re Dealing With a Narcissist

How Could He Just Leave Me??

 This is one of the most common questions that comes through on my stats page, as well as when working with clients.  It’s heartbreaking to hear this question asked with such heartfelt emotion.  Those

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Will Therapy with a Narcissist Help? Why it’s a Bad Idea

Will therapy with a narcissist help? Perhaps you’ve begun to feel desperate after realizing that all your attempts to improve your communication and appease the narcissist’s ever-changing mood

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Why Go No Contact with the Narcissist?

If you’re reading this article, perhaps you’re searching for reasons why No Contact is the best way to sever ties with the Narcissist in your life.  You may have already read some articles and now

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I Filed a Restraining Order Against the Narcissist…Now What?

Filing a restraining order against the Narcissist is often a necessary and unavoidable step in one’s road to independence.  The reason why is because many narcissists refuse to respect their target’s

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Is It Possible He’s Not 100% Narcissist?

  Part of the reason targets of narcissistic abuse stay in the relationship beyond a reasonable and rational point is because they find it too hard to accept the idea that some people are cunning,

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Will My Narcissistic Ex Ever Feel Guilty?

A common question as it relates to a toxic relationship is whether the narcissist feels any guilt or remorse for what they’ve done to their partner (a.k.a. source of supply). The short answer is no. In

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Am I in an Abusive Relationship?

  No relationship is perfect.  Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, whether romantic or otherwise.  Even the best of lovers will have moments of misunderstanding, frustration, and confusion. 

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Feel Like You Were Brainwashed by the Narcissist?

  You were.  Through manipulative psychological techniques that effectively condition your subconscious mind. Narcissists use subtle clues and suggestions to guide you towards things that are not

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The Silent Treatment Plays on Your Fear of Abandonment

Fear of abandonment.  It can destroy your life if left unchecked; especially if you are in a relationship with a Narcissist. Narcissists use this fear to keep you in a perpetual cycle of anxiety, causing

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