All posts by Kim Saeed

How to Make Love Stay

~ by Ven Baxter   Have you been wondering how to make love stay?  Love thrives in the absence of fear. Most boy-girl relationships in childhood and young adulthood are riddled with fear. You wonder

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How Abandonment Wounds Are Born and Raised

Have you ever wondered where your sense of loneliness comes from?  Why sometimes the feelings of isolation are so dark and deep, they may cause you to entertain thoughts of not waking up the next morning?   Occasionally,

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Can a Narcissist Change If They Really Want To?

Can a narcissist change if they really want to?  Because that’s the dream, right?   Hope is a beautiful and powerful thing. It is the fuel that keeps you going when you’re tempted to give up.

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The Hidden Teachings of Narcissistic Abuse

  by Ven Baxter~ What most powerfully grabs our attention in our outer experience is what most relates to our inner search (for healing, growth, wisdom, and so on)–that is, our “spiritual path.” 

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5 Ways to Ease Your Fibromyalgia Pain Caused by Emotional Abuse

Are you in an abusive relationship with a narcissist and feel exhausted most of the time, or perhaps you’ve developed physical symptoms such as joint pain, headaches or Irritable Bowel Syndrome?  You

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7 Sneaky Things Narcissists Say to Get You Back

Did you know there are certain things narcissists say to get you back when you’ve finally kicked them to the curb?  Or, maybe they fabricated a fake discard to make you think you’ve ruined

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The True Tragedy of the Devaluation Stage

If you’ve experienced the agony of narcissistic abuse,  you’d probably agree that the devaluation stage carried out by the narcissist is one of the elements that caused the most damage.  After

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Why Narcissists Discard You at the Worst Possible Times

Wondering why narcissists discard you at the worst possible time? It could be that you just learned you have a serious illness (perhaps having been hospitalized) or lost someone close to you, only to have

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3 Dating Sites to Avoid That are Crawling with Narcissists

If you feel lonely and yearn for someone to fill a space in your heart, creating an online dating profile might seem like the logical thing to do.  With the billions of people on dating sites world-wide,

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