“Peace is the result of retraining your mind to process life as it is, rather than as you think it should be.” ~ Wayne W. Dyer
What other clients and readers are saying… I am writing to say that I have learnt so much from you in just a few short weeks. What is amazing is many of the examples you talk about totally mirrors my life. You have shown me what it means to be transparent with myself and how to aspire to live life to the fullest. I have volumes of self-help books on my shelf but this is first time I feel that I have been helped in a very real and tangible way. – Janet K.
I’m 3 weeks out from mine and Kim’s last session and I’m happy to say I’ve not broken NC, nor do I have the desire to. Kim helped me understand that my Narc Ex’s hoovering attempts had nothing to do with love, but with control and manipulation. Understanding that Narcissists cannot experience love helped me detach from the relationship and move forward. Her suggestions for healing have been very helpful and I feel better every day. She helped me in ways that my therapist couldn’t… ~ Melody C.
I am so grateful that I found Kim’s site and that she offers coaching! I had several failed attempts at No Contact and she helped me to finally maintain it long enough to get rid of my abusive Ex. She really stuck with me during those first few weeks when all I wanted to do was let him back in. Kim knows what it’s like and I felt supported like never before. She never judged me when I repeatedly had melt-downs in the middle of our sessions. It’s so liberating to work with someone who knows exactly what this type of abuse feels like. ~ Casey B.
Thank you, Kim, for helping me detach from my Narcissistic fiance. She never made me feel loved or validated, and now I know why. She played the damsel in distress to the hilt, and I fell for it hook, line, and sinker…but never got any acknowledgement. I feel so free now in knowing that nothing I ever would have done would have mattered to her. She’s a heartless succubus, and I see that now, thanks to our sessions. I also have my confidence back. You have changed my whole outlook on life and relationships. ~ David S.
I just need to say thank you to Kim. I Have come so far in 3 months. I would never have made it this far without your one to one coaching. Kim could even tell me what my narc would do before it happened. Kim knows more about Narcissistic Abuse than anyone else I know… ~Tom
“I’ve been to several therapists, but none made me feel validated like talking with Kim. She understands me on a level that none of my therapists could. I do like my current therapist who helps me with EMDR (at Kim’s recommendation) , but working with Kim is healing for my soul. I finally understand everything that happened to me. I believe Kim has saved my life ~ literally. I always felt I was moments away from a heart attack, but now I feel soothed. Thank you, Kim” ~ Ramona P.
I was a little hesitant to work with someone over the phone to go No Contact, but Kim helped me every step of the way. She even followed up with me when I went MIA for a couple of weeks to see how I was doing. If it hadn’t been for Kim checking in with me and understanding what it’s like, I’d probably still be with the Narc. With Kim’s help, I finally got the courage to get my own apartment and go No Contact. She was just what I needed to finally cross over to the other side. I’ve been NC for two months now and I’m not looking back. (Kim, I’ve been using the oils, doing the meditations, and have had a few reiki massages. They really work!!!!!!) ~ Sandra R.
“I probably wouldn’t be here to write this if not for Kim’s guidance to get away from the Narc. Between her coaching and Melanie’s program which I discovered on Kim’s site, I have broken the bad patterns I always fell into in all of my relationships. The last one was a doozie and working with Kim was going to be my last try before doing something I might have been sorry for. There were some tough times as we worked through my addiction to the Narc, but she stayed with me, even when I became a little difficult. Thank you Kim. You don’t realize how thankful I am. You saved my life”. ~ Carlotta A.
“Kim not only stayed with me while I maintained No Contact, she helped me see how the wounds I’ve carried around since childhood were the reason I kept falling into the same kinds of relationships with people who took advantage of my kindness and empathy. I no longer feel the need to fix other peoples’ problems, nor do I feel responsible for what happens to them. I’ve finally opened up to my true self and I feel like a teenager with my whole life ahead of me.” ~ Stacy K. “I found Kim’s site through a Google search and I truly believe I was led here by a higher power. Her site is full of raw, applicable insight that I haven’t been able to find elsewhere. I finally took the plunge and went No Contact with her help. All areas of my life have improved since I’m no longer with my abusive wife, and Kim has turned me onto several healing strategies that have greatly improved my self-esteem and sense of peace. Thank you.” – Brad B. Kim – You have helped to bring clarity to a situation that was incredibly painful and confusing, for so many years. All I can say is thank you for saving my life. Literally. Each day gets a tiny bit easier, but with your website, I am learning so much more about the nature of this type of predator. Knowledge is power. Thank You!!!! xoxo ~ Raquel
Let me thank you for the honest and frank blogs about narcissistic abuse. I’ve been unable to find a therapist who knows about this subject except one and her calendar is booked solid. She did give me your name as a reference, though, and my knowledge and healing has begun. I am so grateful for that. ~ L. A.
I wanted to reach out to you to tell you how ever thankful I am for your presence in my life! (Like to the moon and back and around the universe a few times!) thank you thank you my set friend! I am finally feeling like all the pain and sorrow will be distant memories and am sort of grateful for it all because it I am seeing to all for what it is (def not true love), but karma, something I needed to learn. Not really confident that he has or will take away the same, but one can hope….even just in a moment. I really am thankful for you dear, the one that helped me wake up -& see the light!!! Feeling hopeful….. ~ Michelle R.
It’s been over six years since I left my ex and I’ve “dated” (I use that term loosely) three narcissists since him. After escaping the last one, I’m starting to slowly enter the “self-love/self-acceptance” arena. It’s a foreign place, but not scary 🙂 Thank you for being here for me…and all of us, many of whom have never been taught or experienced self-worth of any kind. Your movement is life changing for many people. Myself included. Thank you, Kim. ~ K. D.,
I knew when my own therapist recommended Kim’s site that there was hope. I was afraid that as a coach, Kim might make me complete a bunch of irrelevant paperwork that had nothing to do with my situation, but that wasn’t the case at all. Kim got right down to my urgent issues and helped me through the worst phase of No Contact, as well as to survive a couple of unexpected hoovering attempts. I got more help from Kim than from fourteen months of therapy. ~ Jackie H.
I was surprised to learn how fun healing could be. Kim helped me learn about and use guided meditations, essential oils, and crystals throughout some of our sessions. Some people might think these methods are weird, but they’re not. Kim actually didn’t bring up the use of crystals until I mentioned them. I was surprised to learn how much she knew about alternative healing methods, and felt validated when she gave me encouragement instead of making me feel weird like other people have. ~ Jasmine J.
Kim, you’ve given me a new start on life. I guess that’s why you always put #newlife on your FB posts 🙂 ~ Billy P.
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