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Do Narcissists Care If You Move On?

Multitudes of people who’ve implemented No Contact with the narcissist in their lives will inevitably ask the question, do narcissists care if you move on? Why?  Because they are often consumed with

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3 Quick Ways to Heal When You’re Short on Time

Recovery from Narcissistic abuse takes time and effort.  Survivors must work at healing every day, which isn’t always easy when there is a job to go to and children to take care of.  In spite of our

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Using Essential Oils to Reduce Anxiety

More and more people are turning to essential oils to address the spiritual, physical and emotional components of the body.  But because essential oils are natural and can’t be patented, there are no

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Dear Kim – How Long Until I Feel Whole Again?

Good Morning, Kim: How long do you think it takes to feel whole again? I feel like very strange and empty now after this last discard and dump. I go out with people and do things but don’t feel totally

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How You Became the Other Woman

I’ve worked with countless numbers of women who started out engaged to or married to a Narcissist and then, through a twisted turn of events, became the “Other Woman”. While the Narcissist’s

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What to Do When Your Family and Friends Disappear During Your Recovery

You’ve done it.  You finally moved out, initiated No Contact and so far, you’re holding your position and looking forward to your recovery from narcissistic abuse.  You feel unsure of yourself and

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I Was a Horrible Wife

After meeting and “falling in love”, we married and started our lives together.  At that time, I had no idea that I needed to be aware of the signs of a narcissistic spouse.   In the beginning,

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When the Narcissist Promises to Change

Hoovering is basically another tactic used by the Narcissist to re-claim control when you’ve tried to break away from the relationship. Contrary to what it may seem, the Narcissist has not had an epiphany,

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Are You Offering Yourself Up to Count Narcula?

“The art of narcissistic abuse is about the skill in making the victim offer himself up to abuse” ~ Kathy Krajco One of the most common questions asked by targets of Narcissistic abuse is, “Why have

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