All posts by Kim Saeed

Email tsunamis…just don’t

You sit down at your computer. You’ve had something on your mind for a while and you need to share it. You head over to your email account, hit “compose” and enter the narcissist’s

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Got an hour? Try this and you’ll wonder why you waited so long

Getting through the pain of No Contact is sometimes brutal. It can seem impossible to take care of ourselves when we must work a job and have kids and pets to take care of. Many people think that self-care

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The Top 3 Ways to Epically Ruin Your Chance at True Love (for Women)

One of the most common questions I receive from my female clients and readers is, “Are there any GOOD men out there?!” I know from personal experience that it can seem the world is full of self-serving

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6 Strong Signs You Have Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome

Is it possible you’re dealing with a narcissist?  The best way to know for sure is to determine if you could have what is called Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome.   The clinical term for this condition

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LMR Q&A Tuesday – Could it be true? Is he really a narcissist?

Dear Kim, I’ve been with my partner almost two years now, and while looking up verbal abuse articles, I came across some very alarming links regarding Narcissism. Now, instead of believing I’ve simply

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Narcissistic Abuse is Domestic Abuse

October is in full gear, bringing with it pumpkins, Halloween, harvest, Thanksgiving, and warm thoughts of sweaters and mugs of hot cocoa. It also marks Domestic Violence Awareness month. Sadly, there

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This Just In: Men Watch Porn (An Antithetical)

One of my favorite sites, The Good Men Project, featured an article a couple of days ago titled, “This Just In:  Men Watch Porn” My first reaction was, “Well, no duh.  This has been

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Shady Shizzle from the Mouths of Narcissists

The narcissist lies to control you. People who find themselves in confusing relationships with Narcissists and other users are often baffled by what their enigmatic partners really mean…wishing they

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How to NOT be a sitting duck for Narcissists and other Manipulators

Dating is a phase of discovery – whether or not you are recovering from a toxic relationship.  But for those who are trying to break patterns of choosing the wrong partners, shedding “people pleasing”

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